A note on newborn shopping: The baby industry is worth billions because new parents are anxious and want to prepare. Most of what's marketed to you is unnecessary. Your baby needs warmth, milk, cleanliness, and you. Everything else is extra.
This list focuses on what you genuinely need in the first 12 weeks. You don't need to buy everything before the birth — many items can be added as you discover what suits your baby and your lifestyle.
🚫 Things most parents regret buying
- Expensive travel system before birth — test before you buy. Your boot size, car, and lifestyle matter enormously.
- Moses basket if you have a co-sleeping space — many babies refuse them. See what your baby prefers first.
- Bottle warmer and steriliser set — a bowl of hot water and a microwave steriliser bag do the same job for a fraction of the cost.
- Baby food processor — a hand blender you probably already own works perfectly for weaning.
- Nappy bin — a pedal bin from any supermarket is identical and half the cost.
- Baby bath — a sink works fine for the first months. If you want one, a basic IKEA washing-up bowl is identical.
- Wipe warmer — genuinely unnecessary. Room-temperature wipes are absolutely fine.
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