Baby Development · Reference Guide
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Developmental Red Flags

Age-by-age milestones from 6 weeks to 2 years, alongside the signs worth mentioning to your health visitor or GP. Two columns per age band — what to expect on the left, when to seek advice on the right. Searchable.

👶 6 weeks to 2 years 📋 7 age bands 🔍 Searchable reference
The wide range of normal is real. Development is not a race and does not follow a fixed timetable. The milestones in this guide are averages across a broad population — many healthy, typically developing children reach them earlier or later. The "mention to your HV/GP" items are not diagnoses — they are conversations worth having. Early referral, when needed, is always better than waiting.
Important: This guide is a reference tool, not a diagnostic service. If you are worried about your child's development — at any age, for any reason — mention it to your health visitor or GP. Trust your instinct. Early intervention for any developmental concern is always more effective than a wait-and-see approach.
How to read this guide

Each age band shows two columns: what most children are doing around that age, and the signs that are worth raising with your health visitor or GP. One item is shown in black — this is a firm clinical threshold that always warrants referral, not just a mention.

✓ What to expect around this age → Worth mentioning to HV/GP 🚨 Always refer — firm threshold
🌱 6 Weeks First GP check · NIPE screen · Social smile just arriving
What to expect around this age
  • Fixes gaze briefly on a face or high-contrast object
  • Startles to a loud sound
  • Quiets or turns toward a familiar voice
  • Hands mostly fisted, beginning to open
  • Some head control when pulled to sitting — not steady
  • Cries to communicate different needs
  • Social smile beginning to emerge (often from 5–6 weeks)
Worth mentioning to your HV or GP if…
  • No reaction to loud sounds
  • Not fixing on faces or objects at all
  • No social smile by 8 weeks
  • Persistent squint — eyes not moving together
  • Head consistently turning to one side (possible torticollis)
  • Very floppy (hypotonia) or unusually stiff
  • Feeding difficulty causing significant weight concern
💡 The 6-week review is a routine check — the right time to raise any concern, however small. 'I'm probably worrying about nothing' is a valid reason to mention something.
🌿 3–4 Months Smiling, cooing, beginning to reach · Rolling on the horizon
What to expect around this age
  • Smiles responsively and frequently
  • Follows moving objects with eyes across midline
  • Turns head toward sounds
  • Holds head steady when supported upright
  • Brings hands together at midline
  • Vocalises — cooing, vowel sounds
  • Recognises familiar faces
Worth mentioning to your HV or GP if…
  • No social smile by 3 months
  • Not following moving objects with eyes
  • Not responding to voices or sounds
  • Not holding head at all with support by 4 months
  • No vocalisations (cooing or similar)
  • Persistent squint
  • Any regression — loss of a skill previously present
💡 Development in this period is rapid and variable. 'Is everything OK?' at 3–4 months is one of the most common questions at health visitor appointments — you are in good company.
🌼 6 Months Reaching and grasping · Beginning to sit · Weaning approaching
What to expect around this age
  • Reaches for and grasps objects
  • Transfers objects from hand to hand
  • Sits with support (some beginning to sit briefly alone)
  • Rolls front to back
  • Responds to own name
  • Babbles — early consonant sounds beginning
  • Recognises familiar people; may begin showing stranger anxiety
  • Bears weight on legs when held standing
Worth mentioning to your HV or GP if…
  • Not reaching for or grasping objects
  • Not rolling front to back
  • Not bearing any weight on legs when held
  • Not babbling or making consonant sounds
  • Not responding to name
  • Not showing interest in surroundings or people
  • Not turning toward sounds
  • Any loss of a previously gained skill
💡 Rolling timing varies considerably — some babies roll early, some not until closer to 7 months. The direction of rolling (front-to-back before back-to-front) also varies. What matters is that movement and exploration are generally progressing.
🌻 9 Months Crawling or creeping · Pincer grip · Object permanence · Separation anxiety peaks
What to expect around this age
  • Sits independently and steadily
  • Moving across the floor — crawling, creeping, bottom-shuffling, or rolling (method varies widely)
  • Pulls to standing holding furniture
  • Pincer grip developing — beginning to pick up small objects with finger and thumb
  • Responds clearly to own name
  • Waves bye-bye and plays peek-a-boo
  • Points with index finger at things of interest
  • Looks where you look or point (joint attention beginning)
Worth mentioning to your HV or GP if…
  • Not sitting independently
  • Not moving across the floor in any way
  • No babbling — no consonant sounds at all
  • Not responding to name
  • Not interested in people, toys, or environment
  • No pointing, waving, or showing objects to others
  • Not bearing any weight on legs
  • No joint attention — not following a point
  • Any regression in social engagement or communication
💡 There is a wide range of normal mobility methods — crawling, bottom-shuffling, rolling, and commando crawling are all valid. The timing of first standing and walking varies considerably from this point; what matters is that some form of purposeful locomotion is developing.
🎂 12 Months First birthday · First words arriving · Walking imminent (but not always there yet)
What to expect around this age
  • Standing independently, even briefly
  • Walking with support or independently (some not walking until 13–15 months — normal)
  • Uses 1–2 recognisable words with consistent meaning ('mama', 'dada', 'no')
  • Points at things to share interest (not just to request)
  • Follows a point — looks where you point
  • Imitates actions and simple sounds
  • Waves, claps, plays peek-a-boo
  • Shows affection to familiar people
  • Understands simple instructions ('give me', 'no')
Worth mentioning to your HV or GP if…
  • Not standing even briefly with support
  • No consistent words with meaning
  • Not pointing or using gestures to communicate
  • Not following a point when you point at something
  • Not imitating sounds or actions
  • Not showing interest in sharing things with others
  • Any loss of babbling, words, or social engagement
  • Not responding to name consistently
💡 The 12-month check is a good opportunity to raise any speech and language concern. First words often emerge between 12 and 18 months — some children are just beginning at 12 months. What matters more than a specific word count is the presence of intentional communication — pointing, showing, responding.
👟 18 Months Walking established · Language expanding · Toddler independence asserting
What to expect around this age
  • Walking independently
  • 10–20+ words with clear, consistent meaning
  • Points to named pictures in books
  • Follows simple two-step instructions ('get your shoes and bring them here')
  • Imitates household activities
  • Beginning simple pretend play
  • Plays alongside (if not yet with) other children
  • Feeds self with spoon
Worth mentioning to your HV or GP if…
  • NOT WALKING independently by 18 months — always refer for assessment
  • Fewer than 6–10 words with consistent meaning
  • Not pointing at things of interest to share them
  • Not following simple instructions
  • Not imitating actions or play
  • Any loss of language or social skills previously present
  • Not engaging in simple pretend play
💡 Not walking independently by 18 months always warrants referral for assessment — this is a firm clinical threshold, not a 'wait and see'. Everything else in this section is 'worth mentioning' — not independently alarming, but worth a conversation.
🎈 2 Years Language combining · Social play developing · Second molars and independence
What to expect around this age
  • 50+ words (range is wide — some have many more)
  • Combining two words consistently ('more milk', 'daddy gone')
  • Running, climbing, kicking a ball
  • Simple pretend play — feeding a doll, 'talking' on a toy phone
  • Follows two-step instructions consistently
  • Points to named body parts and pictures in books
  • Plays alongside other children and beginning to play with them
  • Refers to self by name or 'me'
Worth mentioning to your HV or GP if…
  • Not combining two words at all — only single words
  • Fewer than 50 words
  • Strangers can't understand more than 50% of speech
  • Not following two-step instructions
  • Not engaging in any pretend play
  • Any loss of language or social skill
  • Significant difficulty with social interaction or play
  • Rigid, repetitive behaviours significantly affecting daily life
💡 The 2-year development review (the 2-year check with your health visitor) is the right time to raise language concerns specifically. Speech and language therapy referrals made at this stage are well-timed — services are most effective when started early. Asking for a referral is not an overreaction.

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When to Act on a Concern

The right move with any developmental concern — at any age — is to mention it to your health visitor or GP. You do not need to wait for the next scheduled developmental review. You do not need to be certain something is wrong. A concern is enough.

If your health visitor or GP dismisses a concern you feel is genuine, you are entitled to a second opinion or a referral to a community paediatrician. Early referral to speech and language therapy, physiotherapy, occupational therapy, or developmental paediatrics — whatever the appropriate service — produces better outcomes than delayed referral. There is no downside to raising something that turns out to be normal variation. There is a downside to not raising something that needs support.

Regression — the loss of a skill a child has previously demonstrated — is always worth mentioning promptly, regardless of age. This includes loss of words, social engagement, eye contact, or motor skills.

Useful services and resources

Your health visitor: First port of call for developmental concerns in the first two years.

GP referral to community paediatrician: If HV concern is insufficient or you want specialist assessment.

ICAN (now part of the Communication Trust): helpline and resources for speech and language concerns — ican.org.uk.

NHS Healthy Child Programme: Scheduled reviews at 6–8 weeks, 9–12 months, 2–2½ years, and school entry — all opportunities to raise concerns formally.

WiseMama Baby Development guide: A fuller, narrative guide to development in the first year.

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