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Baby Won't Stop Crying: 5 Things to Try Right Now

You're probably reading this during a crying episode. Here are five things to try — starting with motion, white noise and position, and ending with the one thing this guide won't leave out.

⏳ 5 minute read✓ NHS-aligned🇬🇧 UK-specific

You're probably reading this during or just after a crying episode, which means you need practical things to try, not a long explanation. Here are five. The explanation of what colic actually is comes at the end, if you want it.

01

Motion

Rhythmic movement is one of the most consistently effective colic interventions and there's a straightforward reason: it replicates what the womb felt like. The specific type of motion matters less than its consistency and rhythm. What tends to work:

• Being carried and walked — particularly upright, with pressure on the abdomen
• Car journeys (the vibration and white noise combination is often remarkably effective)
• Sitting on a running tumble dryer while holding the baby — vibration plus white noise
• A baby swing or bouncer, particularly if it mimics the pace of walking

The motion needs to continue to keep working. The moment you stop, a baby in a colic episode will often resume crying. This is exhausting. Tag-team with your partner, a family member, anyone.

02

White noise

Loud white noise — at a level comparable to a vacuum cleaner — is one of the better-evidenced comfort measures for colicky crying. The mechanism is thought to involve the same calming effect as the noisy intrauterine environment. Apps and YouTube have hours of white noise; a hairdryer held at a distance works in the immediate term.

The volume matters. Gentle nature sounds are less effective than proper white noise at a reasonable volume. This initially feels counterintuitive — adding noise to a screaming situation — but it often works where quietness doesn't.

📹 Safe volume: at 30cm from the baby, the sound should feel like a shower or fan, not a jet engine. Keep it at or below 50dB for sustained use.
03

Position and pressure

Some babies are calmed by specific holds that put gentle pressure on the abdomen. Two worth trying:

The tiger-in-the-tree hold: lay the baby face-down along your forearm, their cheek resting in your hand, legs straddling either side of your elbow. Walk while holding this position. The abdominal pressure and the motion together are often effective.

The football hold: hold the baby face-down on your forearm with their head at your elbow and their legs straddling your hand. Supports the abdomen directly. Some parents find gentle bouncing or rocking in this position works when upright positions don't.

Worth also trying: a warm bath (if you can manage it at the right moment), or a warm flannel on the abdomen while the baby is held upright.

04

Feeding review

If you're breastfeeding, colic doesn't reliably improve with maternal diet changes — the evidence on this is weak. However, if your baby seems particularly gassy or uncomfortable after feeds, a latch and positioning check is worth having. A baby who is taking in significant air while feeding will be more uncomfortable.

If you're formula feeding, the evidence for switching to a 'comfort' or partially hydrolysed formula is modest but real for some babies — ask your health visitor before switching rather than trialling multiple formulas, as unnecessary switching can disrupt feeding.

Whatever you're feeding, winding thoroughly after each feed — more than you think is necessary — is worth doing during a colicky period.

05

Put the baby down safely and take a break

This is not a last resort. It is a legitimate intervention and this guide would be irresponsible if it didn't include it clearly.

If you are overwhelmed, exhausted, or beginning to feel desperate — put your baby in their cot on their back and leave the room for five minutes. A baby who cries for five minutes alone in a safe space is not harmed. A parent who reaches breaking point without taking a break can be.

Shaken baby syndrome most commonly occurs during colic episodes when a parent or carer is pushed beyond their limit. The NHS and the NSPCC both specifically recommend putting the baby down safely and leaving the room as a colic strategy — not just for the baby's sake, but for yours.

📞 If you are struggling to cope: your health visitor is the right first call. You can also call the NSPCC Helpline on 0808 800 5000, available 24 hours. You don't have to be in crisis to call.
What is actually happening

Colic is defined as crying for more than 3 hours a day, more than 3 days a week, in an otherwise healthy baby under 3 months. It affects around 1 in 5 babies. The cause isn't fully understood — gut immaturity, gas, and neurological overstimulation have all been proposed. What is known clearly: it resolves, universally, by around 3–4 months. Not improves. Resolves. You are not in a permanent situation.

Read more: Colic & Persistent Crying →
📖 Want to go deeper?
Colic & Persistent Crying: What Helps & How to Get Through — the full guide
What colic is, why it happens, every intervention reviewed by evidence, and how to protect your own wellbeing through it.
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