Baby · 5–7 Months · Weaning
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Getting Curious: Baby at 5–7 Months

Between five and seven months, your baby becomes an investigator. Everything gets grabbed, examined, and put in the mouth. Object permanence is emerging — which means they now know you exist when you leave the room and respond accordingly. Sitting arrives. Weaning begins. Stranger anxiety makes its first appearance. This is one of the most developmentally rich stages of the first year, and one of the most practically demanding.

🔍 5 to 7 months ⏱ 14 min read 🔬 NHS weaning guidance · NICE evidence base
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📚 What this guide covers
What is happening developmentally at 5, 6, and 7 months
Sitting — how it develops and how to support it
Weaning readiness — the three signs and what they mean
Starting solids — first foods, approach, and allergen introduction
Stranger anxiety — why it happens and what to expect
Teething — what is real and what is myth
Sleep at 5–7 months
Language development at this stage

What Is Happening at This Stage

Between five and seven months, your baby becomes an investigator. Everything within reach gets grabbed, transferred from hand to hand, inspected, and put in their mouth. They are watching you eat with focused attention. They are beginning to understand that objects exist when they cannot see them — the cognitive shift called object permanence that transforms how they experience the world and the people in it.

This is also the stage when weaning begins for most families, when sitting arrives, and when stranger anxiety often makes its first appearance. Your baby is becoming more distinctly themselves — with preferences, opinions, and the beginnings of something that looks very much like a sense of humour.

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Getting Curious
5–7 months · Object permanence, sitting, and weaning

Month by Month: What to Expect

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5 Months — Grabbing Everything
By five months, most babies are reaching confidently and getting objects to their mouth with reliable accuracy. They are rolling both ways for many, or working toward it. Sitting with significant support is possible, though independent sitting is still some weeks away. Babbling is becoming more varied — different consonants, different intonation patterns, extended sequences of sound. Your baby is also beginning to understand cause and effect in a new way: they know that dropping something creates a sound, that pressing something produces a result, that their own actions have consequences in the world.
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6 Months — The Big Milestone
Six months is a significant developmental marker in almost every domain. Many babies are sitting with minimal support around now, or very close. The NHS and WHO recommend starting solid foods at around six months — not before four months and ideally at or close to six, when the digestive system is more ready. Object permanence is consolidating: your baby will actively search for a toy you hide under a cloth. Stranger anxiety often begins appearing at this point, though it intensifies further over the coming months. The 6–8 month developmental check with your health visitor should happen around now.
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7 Months — Sitting and Exploring
Most babies are sitting confidently without support by seven months, which transforms how they experience the world — their hands are free to explore objects properly for the first time. Reaching across the body midline (picking something up from the left side with the right hand) is an important neurological marker that typically emerges around now. Solid food exploration is well underway for most families, and the texture and variety progression should be moving forward. Some babies begin showing the very earliest signs of crawling preparation — rocking on hands and knees, or pulling forward on their belly.

Sitting: How It Develops

Independent sitting — sitting without any support for more than a few seconds — typically emerges between six and eight months, with considerable normal variation. It develops through a progression of stages that cannot be rushed but can be supported.

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Supported sitting (4–6 months): sitting with your hands around their waist or hips, or propped on a nursing pillow. This builds the trunk muscles and balance responses needed for independent sitting — but do not prop them before they have sufficient control, as it bypasses the muscle development.
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Tripod sitting (5–7 months): sitting with one or both hands on the floor for support. They can engage briefly with objects before needing to return the hand to the floor.
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Independent sitting (6–9 months): sitting without any hand or external support, with enough balance to play with objects in both hands simultaneously. Toppling is still common and normal — always sit them on a soft surface.
Continue tummy time through this stage
Even after sitting develops, tummy time remains valuable — it builds the same core strength that will underpin crawling and standing. Aim to keep it in the daily routine as a play position rather than just a developmental exercise.
Raise with your health visitor
Not sitting with support by 6 months · Not sitting independently by 9 months · Showing strong preference for one side (only reaching with one hand, head tilting consistently to one side) — this can indicate torticollis, which is treatable

Weaning: Starting Solid Foods

Starting solid foods is one of the most anticipated and most anxiety-provoking milestones of the first year. The NHS recommends starting at around six months — not before four months under any circumstances, and ideally at or close to six months when the baby's digestive and immune systems are more ready.

The three signs of readiness

Readiness is defined by three specific developmental markers — not age alone, and not the commonly cited signs that are actually unreliable indicators:

Sitting with minimal support and holding their head steady. This is essential — a baby who cannot sit cannot safely manage solid food.
Loss of the tongue thrust reflex — the automatic pushing-out of anything placed in their mouth. If everything you offer gets pushed straight back out, the reflex is still active and the digestive system is not ready.
Showing interest in food — reaching toward what you are eating, watching you eat with focused attention. This is a genuine readiness cue; enthusiasm for putting objects in their mouth generally is not the same thing.
Common signs that are NOT indicators of readiness
Waking more at night (developmental, not hunger-related) · Watching you eat (could simply be curiosity) · Chewing fists (teething or oral exploration) · Seeming unsatisfied after a milk feed (growth spurt — needs more milk, not solids)

First foods

There is no specific order that foods need to be introduced in — the goal is variety and gradual progression. Iron-rich foods are important from the start because the iron stored from birth is depleting: red meat, dark poultry, lentils, beans, and iron-fortified cereals are all good sources. Vegetables, fruits, and carbohydrates can all be introduced freely.

Allergen introduction

The six most important allergens to introduce early and keep in the diet are: cow's milk (in food — not as a main drink before 12 months), eggs, peanuts, tree nuts (ground or as butter), wheat, and fish. Current evidence strongly suggests that early introduction — before 12 months — reduces the risk of allergy developing. Introduce one new allergen at a time, wait 2–3 days before introducing the next, and offer at a time of day when you can observe for reactions for a couple of hours.

If your baby has severe eczema or a known egg allergy, speak to your GP before introducing peanut, as they may need a supervised introduction.

Baby-led weaning vs purees

Both approaches work. Baby-led weaning — offering soft finger foods from the start rather than purees — has good evidence for developing fine motor skills and a positive relationship with food, but requires careful attention to texture and choking risk. Purees allow more control over texture progression and may feel safer initially. Most families use a mixture of both. The right approach is the one that works for your family and your baby.

"We were so anxious about weaning. We bought a high chair, read everything, and then on the day just gave her a piece of soft carrot. She picked it up, looked at it, put it in her mouth, made a face, and dropped it. We laughed for five minutes. It was fine."
From Reddit · r/UKparenting · starting solids at 6 months

Stranger Anxiety

Stranger anxiety — the distress your baby shows when approached by unfamiliar people, and increasingly when separated from you — typically begins between 5 and 8 months and peaks around 8–10 months. It is one of the most commonly misunderstood developmental events of the first year.

It is not a sign that your baby is shy, anxious by nature, or not socialised enough. It is a direct consequence of cognitive development: your baby now has clear mental representations of familiar people (primarily you), understands that unfamiliar people are not you, and has the emotional response to that awareness that you would expect from someone encountering a stranger for the first time. It is developmental, it is normal, and it passes.

With relatives and friends: let them approach at your baby's pace rather than being handed over immediately. Sitting with you while the visitor talks and gradually moves closer is less distressing than an immediate handover.
With childcare: a gradual settling-in period where your baby builds familiarity with their carer in your presence before you leave is the most evidence-supported approach. Do not skip it even if your baby seems fine initially.
With your own family: it is not personal when your baby rejects a grandparent who was previously welcomed. It will pass, and it is not caused by anything that grandparent did or did not do.

Teething: Fact and Myth

First teeth typically emerge between 4 and 7 months, though anywhere between 3 and 14 months is within the normal range. A minority of babies are born with teeth; some do not get their first tooth until after their first birthday. Neither is cause for concern.

What teething genuinely causes

Increased drooling, fist and object chewing, gum tenderness and swelling around erupting teeth, some increased irritability, and mild disrupted sleep around the time a tooth breaks through the gum. These symptoms are real and often uncomfortable for your baby.

What teething does not cause

Fever, diarrhoea, nappy rash, or significant illness. These are common folk attributions that have been disproved by research. If your baby has a temperature above 38°C or is significantly unwell, do not attribute it to teething — investigate it.

What actually helps with teething discomfort
Cold (not frozen) teething rings or chilled fruit and vegetables to chew on · Gentle gum massage with a clean finger · Teething gels containing lidocaine in appropriate infant formulations · Age-appropriate paracetamol or ibuprofen if they are clearly in pain · Your presence and comfort

Sleep at 5–7 Months

Sleep during this stage is highly variable. Some babies consolidate night sleep significantly; others continue waking frequently. The range of normal at 6 months is enormous — from sleeping through to waking 4–5 times — and neither end of that range says anything about your parenting.

If you want to make changes to night waking at this age, 5–7 months is considered an appropriate window to begin gentle sleep coaching. Your baby has the neurological capacity to begin settling more independently, and the AAP notes that responsive approaches begun after 4 months do not cause harm to the parent-child relationship. The NHS does not recommend any specific approach; consistency and your capacity to sustain the approach matter more than the method.

Daytime sleep at this stage is typically 2–3 hours across two naps. Some babies are beginning to consolidate from three naps to two around five to six months.

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